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Break Up & Relationship Trauma Counselling Melbourne

Break up and relationship trauma counselling.

Specialised support to heal after painful, confusing, or emotionally overwhelming relationships.

Where It Begins

When a relationship ends, the pain is real.

The end of a relationship can leave you heartbroken, stuck, and unable to detach — replaying what happened, doubting yourself, and struggling to feel like yourself again.

Break up and relationship trauma counselling at Renewed Life provides a calm, trauma informed space to help your nervous system settle, reduce emotional intensity, and process grief, betrayal, and loss without becoming overwhelmed.

This work supports people healing after painful endings, emotionally manipulative relationships, or patterns that keep repeating — so you can move forward with clarity and emotional freedom.

Who It's For

This service is for you if…

  • You're recovering from a recent breakup or relationship ending
  • You feel emotionally stuck, heartbroken, or unable to detach
  • You're experiencing intrusive thoughts or constant rumination
  • You're struggling with loss of identity or confidence
  • You're recovering from narcissistic traits or emotional manipulation
  • You're experiencing trauma bonding or emotional addiction
  • You keep replaying the story and blaming yourself
  • You're afraid of repeating the same pattern again
I
Detachment
Reduce emotional attachment and regain control over thoughts and reactions.
II
Stabilisation
Calm the nervous system and reduce emotional overwhelm and reactivity.
III
Reclaim
Restore identity, confidence, and emotional clarity after the relationship.
What We Focus On

Healing that goes deeper than talk.

  • Stabilising the nervous system after relational shock
  • Reducing trauma bonding and emotional attachment
  • Processing abandonment, betrayal, and grief
  • Breaking rumination and obsessive thought cycles
  • Releasing stored emotional stress from the relationship
  • Rebuilding self worth and identity
  • Understanding patterns to prevent repetition
  • Preparing for healthier future relationships
Toby and Sussan, Renewed Life counsellors
Toby & Sussan · Renewed Life
Our Approach

Let your nervous system finally reset.

Our approach combines relationship counselling, trauma informed care, and nervous system based methods to support deeper healing after relational trauma.

Rather than analysing your ex or retelling the story endlessly, we focus on helping your nervous system detach, stabilise, and reset so emotional intensity naturally reduces over time.

When appropriate, we integrate our in house trauma release process to help release stored emotional stress, reduce trauma bonding, and restore emotional regulation.

Learn More About Our Programs
A Clear Roadmap

Our programs are designed to create lasting change.

For those who want a clear roadmap and defined outcomes, our structured recovery programs provide focused support across detachment, nervous system stabilisation, and rebuilding identity — ideal if you want a defined path forward after relational trauma rather than open ended support.

View Our Programs
An Important Distinction

What makes our
work different.

This service is not about diagnosing your former partner or labelling the relationship. It is about helping your nervous system heal so you can detach, stabilise, and move forward with clarity and emotional freedom. Some clients choose open ended support, while others prefer a structured recovery program with a clear roadmap after relational trauma.

Your First Step

Schedule your 45-min
initial consultation.

Are you ready to take the first step towards healing and moving forward? Let's start with a 45-minute consultation — an opportunity to ask any questions and learn about the strategies and techniques we use to help you detach, stabilise, and rebuild. There's no pressure and no sales pitch, just clear, helpful information tailored to your needs.

Book a 45-Min Initial Consultation (03) 9088 0895
Level 7 / 570 St Kilda Road, Melbourne 3000
Find Us
570 St Kilda Road, Level 7
Melbourne, Victoria 3000
(03) 9088 0895
By Appointment
Monday – Saturday
Online & In-Person
Accredited & Trusted
ACA — Australian Counselling Association
Verified by Psychology Today
AfterPay available