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The Restore & Rebuild Program

Release the pain of being stuck after divorce or separation — and rebuild the life you deserve.

A structured recovery program for individuals navigating divorce or separation — releasing unresolved emotional pain held in the nervous system and restoring clarity, confidence, and direction.

REBUILD AND RESTORE

No one enters a relationship planning for it to end. Most people simply find themselves unprepared for the emotional impact when it does.

"The relationship may have ended.
Your life doesn't have to stay stuck there."

Toby and Sussan, founders of Renewed Life
Toby & Sussan · Renewed Life
A Contained, Supportive Pathway

Heal the ending without carrying its weight forward.

Restore & Rebuild is a structured recovery program designed to support individuals navigating separation or divorce. It focuses on releasing unresolved emotional pain held in the nervous system, restoring emotional stability, and helping you move forward with clarity, confidence, and direction.

Through a guided process that combines values analysis, nervous system release, and future focused goal setting, this program provides a contained and supportive pathway to heal the ending of a relationship — without carrying its weight into the next chapter of your life.

Your Choice, Your Comfort

Choose the therapist you feel safe with.

Healing after divorce or separation is deeply personal. That's why you can choose who you work with — Sussan or Toby — based on whoever you feel most comfortable and safe opening up to. There is no wrong choice, and we're happy to help you decide during your initial consultation.

Work with Sussan

Many clients prefer to process the emotional weight of a separation with Sussan, working from a female perspective in a warm, contained, and supportive space.

Work with Toby

Others feel more at ease working with Toby, drawing on a male perspective to find clarity, direction, and steady ground as they rebuild.

Your recovery journey is delivered one-to-one with the therapist of your choice — so you can feel fully comfortable throughout the process.

What's Included

Everything inside Restore & Rebuild.

01

Nervous System Informed Support

Healing that is both deep and sustainable

  • Values based stabilisation
  • NSR Clean Slate release
  • Emotional regulation tools
  • Structured integration
  • Future focused goal setting
02

Reflection & Integration Practices

Between-session support to embed the work

  • Guided reflection exercises
  • Grounding and regulation practices
  • Values clarification tools
  • Journaling prompts
  • Boundary reinforcement practices
03

Optional Ongoing Support

For when the program is complete

  • Priority access to additional sessions at a discounted rate
  • Referrals into individual healing or relationship programs if appropriate
  • Long term emotional maintenance guidance
The Structure

Divorce & separation recovery journey.

4 × 90min
Individual Sessions
Delivered in person or via Zoom — each session held in a contained, trauma informed, and nervous system aware framework.
3stages
Values · Release · Rebuild
A guided process combining values analysis, nervous system release, and future focused goal setting.

Recovery rather than crisis — helping you release the pain of the ending and rebuild life with clarity, confidence, and emotional freedom.

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In Their Words

What clients are saying.

I was stuck replaying the end of my marriage for over a year. After the release work I finally felt free — like I could breathe and look forward again.
I came in broken after my separation. I'm leaving with clarity, confidence, and genuine excitement about the life I'm building now.
The grief and anger were running my life. This program helped me let it go and stop carrying my ex everywhere I went.
For the first time since the divorce I feel like myself again. I'm calmer, I sleep, and I actually feel hopeful about the future.
Your First Step

Schedule your 45-min
initial consultation.

Are you ready to take the first step towards releasing the past and rebuilding your life? Let's start with a 45-minute consultation — an opportunity to ask any questions and learn how the Restore & Rebuild program can help you heal, stabilise, and move forward. There's no pressure and no sales pitch, just clear, helpful information tailored to your situation.

(03) 9088 0895
Level 7 / 570 St Kilda Road, Melbourne 3000
Find Us
570 St Kilda Road, Level 7
Melbourne, Victoria 3000
(03) 9088 0895
By Appointment
Monday – Saturday
Online & In-Person
Accredited & Trusted
ACA — Australian Counselling Association
Verified by Psychology Today
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