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Individual Relationship Counselling

Change starts with understanding yourself.

One-on-one relationship counselling and coaching to help you break old patterns, regulate your nervous system, and build the relationships you actually want.

Where It Begins

A space to make sense of your story.

Sometimes the same patterns keep showing up — the same arguments, the same anxieties, the same way of pulling away or holding on too tightly. Individual relationship counselling gives you the space to understand where those patterns come from and how to change them.

Whether you are navigating a difficult relationship, recovering from a breakup, or preparing yourself for something healthier in the future, we work with you one-on-one to bring clarity, insight, and practical tools you can use straight away.

Who It's For

This work is for you if…

  • You keep repeating the same relationship patterns
  • Your partner isn't ready for therapy, but you are
  • You're recovering from a breakup or separation
  • You want to understand your attachment style
  • You feel anxious, reactive, or shut down in relationships
  • You're rebuilding self worth and confidence
  • You want to prepare for a healthier future relationship
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I
Insight
Understand why the same patterns keep repeating, and what's really driving them.
II
Regulation
Learn to settle your nervous system so emotion no longer runs the show.
III
Change
Respond differently, set boundaries, and build the relationships you want.
Toby and Sussan, Renewed Life relationship therapists
What We Work On

Insight, then real change.

  • Attachment styles and relational patterns
  • Emotional triggers and nervous system reactivity
  • Boundaries, self worth, and communication skills
  • Breakup recovery and detachment
  • Rebuilding trust and confidence
  • Relationship decision making
  • Preparing for healthier future relationships

Our approach combines relationship counselling, coaching, and trauma informed care. We focus on both insight and practical change, helping you understand why certain patterns keep repeating and how to respond differently when stress and emotion arise.

When appropriate, we integrate nervous system regulation and our in house trauma release process to support emotional stabilisation and deeper pattern change.

Learn More About Our Programs
An Important Distinction

What makes our
work different.

Individual relationship counselling is often the first step when one partner is not ready to attend therapy, when a relationship has ended, or when you want to work on your own patterns before entering a new relationship.

Your First Step

Schedule your 45-min
initial consultation.

Are you ready to take the first step towards a more fulfilling relationship? Let's start with a 45-minute consultation — an opportunity to ask any questions and learn about the strategies and techniques we use to help you reach your goals. There's no pressure and no sales pitch, just clear, helpful information tailored to your needs.

Book a 45-Min Initial Consultation (03) 9088 0895
Level 7 / 570 St Kilda Road, Melbourne 3000
Find Us
570 St Kilda Road, Level 7
Melbourne, Victoria 3000
(03) 9088 0895
By Appointment
Monday – Saturday
Online & In-Person
Accredited & Trusted
ACA — Australian Counselling Association
Verified by Psychology Today
AfterPay available